A Happy Marriage

People come into your life for a reason,
a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know
what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time, this person will say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
I wonder what mine will be.


The above has been sent by Pradeep Mohan.
Any relationship is a give and take.
Every person should try to give more than take.
However, it should not be only give.
Their should be a take also.
The other person should also feel that he/she is useful to you too.
They should not feel that you can do without him/her.
Everybody likes a hug, (Jaddu ki Jhappi, as Munnabhai called)
Make it a habit to hug or kiss your spouse first thing in the morning while he/she is cooking or reading the papers and say "I love YOU" and just see the difference in their behaviour during the whole day.
Go ahead - try it.
That's the secret of a Happy Marriage.